IVF doctors are not mind readers

Unanswered questions and an inadequate knowledge base on the part of the infertile patient can diminish understanding and produce a large amount of anxiety Frequently , patients have complaints and preconceived notions about medical issues that are way off base. This especially true for infertility, because there are so many old wife's tales about this emotionally charged subject.  There are lots of myths about IVF, and these erroneous ideas come from listening to other people talk, a previous unhappy medical encounter , trying to reason an answer out in your own head or just not being sure of the procedure or process.  Your IVF doctor cannot help you to understand the process or clear your doubts if you don’t ask questions.  

Don’t be intimidated by your IVF physician and don’t be embarrassed about your lack of knowledge and understanding.  The only way you’ll learn is to ask questions.  All concerns and misconceptions need to be addressed and clarified before you, as a patient, can emotionally proceed with medical treatment.  IVF doctors understand this and want you to ask questions.  That tells us that you are emotionally involved in your care.  Knowledge is power and a great way to reduce stress and anxiety when dealing with the unknown. 

 Each patient is an individual with their own ideas, so don’t expect your physician to be a mind reader.  Ask your questions, state your concerns and request clarification if you still do not understand.  Be an active participant in your good health.

For more information see http://blog.drmalpani.com/2005/02/doctor-cant-read-your-mind.html