Three type of internet patients

The Internet can be a valuable source of information for IVF patients. Along with medical information, there are lots of reviews about IVF clinics.

IVF has become a common medical procedure and reading first hand stories of their struggle and triumph can be very inspirational to infertile couples who are in the same situation.  However, the problem with the internet is that it can be a source of both good and bad information, and sometimes patients are not good at sorting out which is which.  The internet can be both a blessing and a curse if you are a doctor trying to treat patients. 

There are three patient types that use the internet. The first type of patient is one who is an experienced internet user, and is able to find reliable information about IVF. They can separate the wheat from the chaff and then use this knowledge to effectively communicate with the doctor. These patients are a pleasure to treat !

The second type of internet user does not know what they are doing, and by the time they see the doctor, they are frustrated because they are lost and confused by the contradictory information on different websites.  They do not know what to trust. This type of patient is already upset and annoyed, and it can take time to educate them as to how to evaluate the quality of online information.

The last type of patient is an obsessive internet user , who uses the web a lot, but gets so lost in technical minutiae, that they cannot interpret the information intelligently, or apply it in the right context. This kind of patient can easily challenge a doctor's patience , because they start thinking of themselves as being experts !

Patients who use the internet can be both a blessing and curse for themselves and their doctors.  The internet is like any other tool, and it has to be used correctly. 

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Doctors and Their Egos

The main reason patients file complaints against their doctors is because they feel that the doctor has treated them badly. They feel doctors are arrogant and think of themselves are being Gods. I have come across quite a few doctors in my time, and I have met some that really deserved their bad reviews and patient complaints.

As a doctor, I have a lot of patients who tell me that I am a good doctor and I am very easy to talk to. While I appreciate the compliment, I have also heard a lot of horror stories about doctors who were high-handed and dismissive. In fact, this attitude of the doctors has actually made women look for another IVF clinic.

Why do doctors have such big egos? Why do doctors think they are better than everyone else?

I think the answer to this question can be found in the fact that doctors have to go through many years of medical college and training, which is why they start thinking of themselves as being superior to the layperson. Also, the very first time a doctor saves a patient's life, this success can go to their head. I have to admit, that while doing my residency, I had the same kind of experience - and having to deal with life and death situations can be both terrifying and exhilarating.

Are you having a hard time talking to your IVF doctor because he doesn't have time for you ?

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It is Best to Let IVF Patients Make Their Own Informed Decisions

A patient who had been advised IVF treatment found during her pre-IVF treatment workup that she had a five millimeter endometrial polyp in her uterus. Another IVF doctor she had gone to had advised her to get the polyp removed before getting her IVF treatment. This patient came to Malpani clinic for a second opinion from me.

In cases like this, it is hard to make definitive decisions. Each doctor has a subjective opinion of issues like this which fall in the grey areas of medical practice. Most doctors do believe in removing anything from the uterus before putting an embryo inside the endometrial cavity . Naturally, they suggested she get an operative hysteroscopy to get the polyp removed prior to the IVF cycle. This being a standard and logical approach , is usual medical advice.

On the other hand, many doctors consider this move unnecessary as there is no evidence that a small polyp affects embryo implantation. Since, there is insufficient clinical evidence for a concrete conclusion to be made, this issue remains controversial. IVF specialists tend to see only infertile women and they are quite likely to assume that if a woman has uterine polyps, that these are the cause of her infertility and will therefore, suggest their removal.  However, contrary to this belief, it is a fact that even fertile women can have endometrial polyps and can get pregnant even if these are left alone. Since, they don’t have a fertility problem in the first place , neither they nor the doctor ever discover it.

This leaves both the doctor and the patient in a state of confusion. The patient gets contradictory advice from different experts. One advocates surgery, the other advises her to leave the polyps alone. What is she to do?

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An embryo is not a baby

As an IVF  doctor , I treat women dream of becoming a mother. Many naively expect that once I have made the embryo in the IVF cycle and transferred this into her uterus, she will get pregnant. Lots of women called their embryos embies, because they start thinking of them as their babies. While it is true that embryos have the potential to become babies, there is a huge difference between a baby and an embryo which is simply a fertilized egg. 

You see the debate all the time on the news when it comes to abortion ! People who are pro-life will treat the fertilized egg as being a baby , because they feel it is uniquely human. However, pro-lifes fail to realize that a cluster of cells is nothing more than a cluster of cells, and it needs to undergo many weeks of development before it even starts resembling baby. 

Most women are on a high after their embryo transfer. Many start treating themselves as being pregnant - after all, isn't there an embryo inside the uterus ? However, the sad truth is that most

embryos fail to implant inside the uterus, and IVF cycles fail all the time. I have seen women who have been so devastated by a negative pregnancy test that they break down and cry in my clinic, because in their minds  they have just lost a baby.  They feel that they have miscarried - and have failed to be able to provide their precious embryos with a safe and secure home.

Because patients do not understand the difference between embryos and babies, Malpani Clinic has been the subject of complaints and negative reviews . Patients feel cheated when their IVF cycle fails, and are happy to badmouth their IVF doctor by writing unfair reviews.

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